Sexologist & Somatic Coach

Hello! I’m Francesca Maria Bourgade Trapani, a certified Sexologist and Sex Educator dedicated to guiding individuals, couples, and groups towards deeper intimacy, embodied pleasure, and authentic connection - with themselves and with others.

Pleasure is your Birthright. 

And the best tool for transformation.

Intimacy is a learning journey - unique to each of us - that leads to a more fulfilling way of living. It unlocks deeper self-love, greater confidence, and more meaningful connections with others.

My mission is to guide you in discovering your inner resources and learning new skills, so you can confidently create and live the intimate life you truly desire.

How I work

My work is rooted in the belief that sexuality, emotional intimacy, and self-expression are essential parts of a thriving life. I offer a supportive, nonjudgmental space for people of all ages, identities, backgrounds, and abilities to explore these vital dimensions of being human. Whether you’re looking to reignite passion, understand your desires more fully, navigate relational challenges, or reconnect with your body, you are welcome here.

At the heart of my practice is the Somatica® Method - a powerful, experiential approach to intimacy and personal transformation.
Based on interpersonal connection, Somatica® combines a conversational framework with embodied experiences that expand what’s available to you in the moment. This isn’t about abstract theory; it’s about feeling, practicing, and integrating - so that the insights you gain are not just understood but lived. The tools we explore together are meant to extend far beyond our sessions, helping you cultivate the kind of intimacy and emotional depth you truly desire.

This work is grounded in relational presence. I don’t stand apart as an observer - I meet you in connection, with attunement and care. As your guide, I engage with you directly and wholeheartedly, offering support as you shift limiting beliefs, release shame, and step into a more empowered, authentic version of yourself.

In this space, vulnerability is honored, and your full self is celebrated. My practice is inclusive and affirming of LGBTQIA+ individuals, neurodiverse clients, differently abled bodies, polyamorous and non-traditional relationships, and people from all walks of life.

Wherever you find yourself on your journey - curious, uncertain, eager, or healing - I’m here to walk beside you.

Sessions are available both in person and online, so you can access this work wherever you are, with the safety and flexibility that suits your life.

Together, we’ll create the conditions for deeper connection, lasting transformation, and a richer, more vibrant experience of intimacy and pleasure.

Let’s begin.

The Method

Based on Interpersonal Connection, Somatica® Method combines a conversational approach with experiential practices to expand what’s available to you in this moment - and to offer tools you can integrate into your life to cultivate the intimacy you truly desire.

This work is grounded in an interpersonal method, where I engage in deep connection with you - not as an external observer, but as a present and attuned guide.

My intention is to help you shift limiting beliefs and behaviours, and adopt empowering habits that support you in discovering what you genuinely want and need in your sex life and relationships.

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How I Work

A Safe Space for You to Be Seen and Listened to

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During our sessions, you are invited  to freely share anything you think might help as I guide you on your personal journey to a more fulfilling intimacy, and I will listen with care, empathy, and confidentiality.

Authentic Interactions with Support and Feedback

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I take the time to truly get to the root of what you choose to share with me. This helps me to better understand how I can support you to overcome mental, physical, and emotional blocks, beliefs, and barriers that stand in the way of you expressing your intimacy to its fullest and most joyful. 

Guidance Towards Personal Growth

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Finally, I guide you through practical, experiential approaches to learn more about what is available to you right now, while also suggesting life-enhancing habits that will allow you to nourish your life and create a pleasure-filled basis.

Services

Intimacy
Challenges

  • Low libido

  • Difficulty climaxing / orgasming

  • Pain or discomfort during sex

  • Erectile dysfunction

  • Early / delayed ejaculation

  • Anxiety and shame

  • Intimacy during and after IVF

Couples / Group
Reconnection

  • Sexless relationships

  • Connect different sexual desires

  • Intimacy & parenthood

  • Learn relationship repair

  • Navigate boundaries, needs and communication

  • Explore non-monogamous settings

Discovery &
Empowerement

  • Understand your core desires

  • Identify your erotic blueprint

  • Explore fantasies and your sexual experiences menu

  • Navigate kink and BDSM

  • Perimenopause and menopause Intimacy

  • Sex during pregnancy and post childbirth

  • Intimacy guidance for transwomen

Sex Education
Support

  • Parents Communication Coaching

  • Consent and Boundaries

  • Body Image and Self Perception

  • Navigate Masturbation

  • Guidance on porn consumption and healthy representation of sex

  • Connect to LGBTQIA+ young adults

  • Talk about sex safety topics in a meaningful way

INFO ABOUT THE SESSIONS

All sessions are online
In person sessions are available for clients based in Rome

Languages: I work in English, Spanish, Italian and French

Lenght: 1H

Cost: €90 Individuals - €120 Couples
I reserve two donation base slots per month, strictly dedicated to clients in challenging financial situation.

TO MAKE A BOOKING: email cosmointimacy@gmail.com

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Testimonials

  • “Francesca helped me reconnect with my inner lioness. I was craving excitement and a more fulfilling sex life, which had started to feel dull, but I had no idea where to begin. Together, we embarked on a true journey of self-discovery. I’ve never felt sexier.”

    Belinda, London

  • "Parenting had placed a huge strain on our intimacy. Francesca helped us reignite what we thought might have been lost forever."

    Juliette & Vincent, Paris

  • "It was a true rollercoaster, our sessions were filled with both tears and laughter. We came out of it with a fresh new perspective on each other and a set of evergreen tools to support our day-to-day communication."

    Fernando & Leo, Barcelona

  • "I finally learned to normalize my sexuality and pursue the experiences I truly crave, no more shame, no more self-sabotage."

    Joe, Rome

  • "I came to Francesca seeking support in reconnecting with myself after giving birth. I felt truly seen and held. She provided me with concrete tools to build a new relationship with my body and to create space for love and intimacy within my new life routine."

    Alexandra, London

  • "I think she might be the best-kept secret behind amazing lovers."

    Diane, Amsterdam

  • "Francesca helped us navigate conversations about sex with our young adult kids. Since we never received any proper education ourselves, we felt lost when it came to protecting them from unhealthy pornography, teaching them about consent, and helping them establish the boundaries they need as they begin to explore intimacy. She’s been a precious guide—a true asset to our family."

    Cibele & Elliot, Lisbon

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