Sexology & Somatic Coaching

Experience the Transformative Power of Intimacy

Pleasure is your Birthright. 

And the best tool for transformation.

Intimacy is a learning journey - unique to each of us - that leads to a more fulfilling way of living. It unlocks deeper self-love, greater confidence, and more meaningful connections with others.

My mission is to guide you in discovering your inner resources and learning new skills, so you can confidently create and live the intimate life you truly desire.

About me

Francesca M. Bourgade Trapani, MSc

I am certified Sexologist, Somatica® trained Coach and Sex Educator.

I work with individuals, couples, and groups from vastly different backgrounds, age, identities and abilities, helping them navigate their own paths to greater pleasure, intimacy, and fulfillment.

I offer a safe and supporting space where everyone can feel free to express themselves, engage with vulnerable topics  and be celebrated for their authentic self.

The Method

Based on Interpersonal Connection, Somatica® Method combines a conversational approach with experiential practices to expand what’s available to you in this moment - and to offer tools you can integrate into your life to cultivate the intimacy you truly desire.

This work is grounded in an interpersonal method, where I engage in deep connection with you - not as an external observer, but as a present and attuned guide.

My intention is to help you shift limiting beliefs and behaviours, and adopt empowering habits that support you in discovering what you genuinely want and need in your sex life and relationships.

How I Work

A Safe Space for You to Be Seen and Listened to

During our sessions, you are invited  to freely share anything you think might help as I guide you on your personal journey to a more fulfilling intimacy, and I will listen with care, empathy, and confidentiality.

Authentic Interactions with Support and Feedback

I take the time to truly get to the root of what you choose to share with me. This helps me to better understand how I can support you to overcome mental, physical, and emotional blocks, beliefs, and barriers that stand in the way of you expressing your intimacy to its fullest and most joyful. 

Guidance Towards Personal Growth

Finally, I guide you through practical, experiential approaches to learn more about what is available to you right now, while also suggesting life-enhancing habits that will allow you to nourish your life and create a pleasure-filled basis.

Services

Intimacy
Challenges

  • Low libido

  • Difficulty climaxing / orgasming

  • Pain or discomfort during sex

  • Erectile dysfunction

  • Early / delayed ejaculation

  • Anxiety and shame

  • Intimacy during and after IVF

Couples / Group
Reconnection

  • Sexless relationships

  • Connect different sexual desires

  • Intimacy & parenthood

  • Learn relationship repair

  • Navigate boundaries, needs and communication

  • Explore non-monogamous settings

Discovery &
Empowerement

  • Understand your core desires

  • Identify your erotic blueprint

  • Explore fantasies and your sexual experiences menu

  • Navigate kink and BDSM

  • Perimenopause and menopause Intimacy

  • Sex during pregnancy and post childbirth

  • Intimacy guidance for transwomen

Sex Education
Support

  • Parents Communication Coaching

  • Consent and Boundaries

  • Body Image and Self Perception

  • Navigate Masturbation

  • Guidance on porn consumption and healthy representation of sex

  • Connect to LGBTQIA+ young adults

  • Talk about sex safety topics in a meaningful way

I offer online sessions with clients based anywhere in the world or in person for clients based in Rome or Milan.

Sessions can be done in English, Spanish, Italian and French.

All sessions last 50 min. I charge 75€ for individual and 110€ for couples/groups.

I also reserve a  few donation based slots per month to accommodate clients in difficult financial situations.

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Testimonials

  • “Francesca helped me reconnect with my inner lioness. I was craving excitement and a more fulfilling sex life, which had started to feel dull, but I had no idea where to begin. Together, we embarked on a true journey of self-discovery. I’ve never felt sexier.”

    Belinda, London

  • "Parenting had placed a huge strain on our intimacy. Francesca helped us reignite what we thought might have been lost forever."

    Juliette & Vincent, Paris

  • "It was a true rollercoaster, our sessions were filled with both tears and laughter. We came out of it with a fresh new perspective on each other and a set of evergreen tools to support our day-to-day communication."

    Fernando & Leo, Barcelona

  • "I finally learned to normalize my sexuality and pursue the experiences I truly crave, no more shame, no more self-sabotage."

    Joe, Rome

  • "I came to Francesca seeking support in reconnecting with myself after giving birth. I felt truly seen and held. She provided me with concrete tools to build a new relationship with my body and to create space for love and intimacy within my new life routine."

    Alexandra, London

  • "I think she might be the best-kept secret behind amazing lovers."

    Diane, Amsterdam

  • "Francesca helped us navigate conversations about sex with our young adult kids. Since we never received any proper education ourselves, we felt lost when it came to protecting them from unhealthy pornography, teaching them about consent, and helping them establish the boundaries they need as they begin to explore intimacy. She’s been a precious guide—a true asset to our family."

    Cibele & Elliot, Lisbon

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